Men cannot tune in to their emotional feelings when they return home from work. They have to enter the caves to focus their thoughts on something else bigger than their work problems so they can tune back to their emotional feelings at home.
Men go into the caves when faced with problems. They will not come out until they think it's safe. If women try to follow them into the caves to offer help, the deeper they go and the longer they take to come out.
Interpretation from experienced women on this issue (definitely not me) : Men - When they see a problem at work which they couldn't really solve, they act as if the whole world is falling down on them. If their women try to make them talk or try to help them without ill intentions, they then become irritated and 'throw' everythig that they have with their women out the window. Then they disappear (into the cave).
I just wish men didn't have to go into their caves so often. No wonder Batu Caves is always full of people..... I must one day go check if they are all men.
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